A Dominants Tools....an oops!

A Dominants Tools

In the whole scope of things, one should never “borrow” a Dominants tools without their approval. Among all the different reasons why this one shouldn’t do that, there is only a few that really cover it all, training and safety come to mind. And only one that this one forgot for a few brief minutes of playtime.  Respect. Of this ones two distinct personalities, her kitty side is the one most apt to get into trouble; she does things without thought or concern for others. She is not a “bad kitty” per se, she just doesn’t consider the consequences of her “fun” and in this case dropped her good personality into some hot water and leaving her struggling to right the wrong done, which now brings us to why a submissive or slave should not take their Dominants tools without permission.

First off, a submissive/slave generally has not had any training in the use of the tools, and just because one is on the receiving end of said tool does NOT automatically qualify one as an expert!  Dominants/Tops spend a great may years learning their “trade”, it is Their responsibility as a Dominant/Top to ensure the safety and welfare of the subs/bottoms/slaves beneath their hands. Most tools can and do harm, and in the hands of One that is responsible and well trained those tools create an amazing blend of controlled pain mixed with pleasure that will ensure that both the Dominant and sub are satisfied.

Safety is another primary concern and there are so many ways that any tool, in the wrong hands, could seriously injure or even maim or kill. In this case the simple crop this one chose to borrow uses, blunt force to inflict pain, ohhhh so deliciously too! However, hit someone too hard in say the kidneys…bad news, or across the spinal column damaging it, we don’t want to go there!

And, the one thing that this one did not think about was the respect that her Dominants deserve. The tools are just another extension of Them, the same as the home they live in, the furniture in it, the clothes they wear…and their submissive, They are not just bodies with a voice. So, to say one respects their Dominants it is with everything! The care of this girls Owners does not stop at the bedroom door; it extends into the very fabric of O/our lives, private and public. How she behaves, what she does with their possessions, including her body, all reflects back on Them!

This one knows that during her journey, she will make mistakes; she also knows that she will learn from those mistakes and each day she will work hard to ensure that They are pleased, happy and content. Because in the end, for this girl…she is only happy when she has served them to the best of her ability.